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That man is not ready for a relationship, he is looking for something to use against you in the future, I thought relationships were to look for a way forward, so why is he stuck in the past. funny enough people like that do wore things. My advice for you is to keep emotions aside and use the facts available, are you comfortable with him?

Do you see yourself being happy with this man in the long run if he doesn't change? Do you think you need to work on yourself a d your mindset first before entering a relationship? what exactly do you want for your life, what are you looking for? answer the questions sincerely and you'll have your answers on what to do next

It must be overwhelming and difficult trying to balance honesty with the fear of being judged or misunderstood. What do you think would happen if you had an open conversation with him about why his focus on your past makes you uncomfortable?

i really think that am comfortable with him because he cares for me and provides all my needs

i really think that am comfortable with him because he cares for me and provides all my needs

if he knows the truth about my past life am sure he will break up buh I want to settle down with him

I'm happy for you then

It seems like you are in such a tough spot, torn between wanting to be honest and the fear of losing someone you really want to be with. When you think about telling him the truth, what worries you the most about how he might react? Do you think he would lose his respect for you or treat you differently?

he will loose his respect for me and also treat me differently. he said he can't date a girl more than three body counts and am a victim here

Do you think it's fair that he has so much interest or opinion on how you have lived or sexual partners you have had before him? Have you questioned his body l counts too? don't you think you deserve to be with someone who wouldn't judge you or belittle you based off of past experiences?