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It is understandable that you would feel insecure when you see things on his phone that make you uncomfortable. Don't you think if he respects you he would try to understand how you feel about it? Do you feel like your concerns are not being taken seriously?

he doesn't see anything wrong in what he does but always makes me look like the troublesome one

I don't know if he respects me but he puts me first in other things

how don't you try having an indepth conversation with him about how this makes you feel?

I've tried having an in depth conversation but he feels he's right with what he's doing and can't be stopped no matter what I do

how do you handle your emotions when you feel stressed about what he's doing? do you have what helps you take your mind from the frustration you feel?

I cry and write to myself on WhatsApp

Have you thought of speaking with someone about how you are feeling? like a counselor or close family. Talking about it can help you feel better. It's important for you to prioritize your well-being.

I would love to talk to a counselor but my husband won't like the idea of talking about our marriage to someone

Oh, so how do you intend to handle the situation?

I don't know that's why I need help so that he doesn't know, I don't want to be bothered by whatever he does or whoever he talks to. I want to have my peace of mind

how are you planning on achieving that?

I don't just know

Don't you think it would be best to focus on your well-being and things that bring you peace of mind? and when you feel it's the right time you can try talking to your husband again?