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My man and I have been together for 4 years now and we recently got engaged. The issue now is that everytime he’s always going back to past hurts, and how he hopes he’s not making a mistake or if it’s going to be worth it because he’s currently in Uk and honestly I’m tired as well. We always argue about irrelevant things and he always exaggerate issues instead of extinguishing them. He’s always talking about the past and sometimes I feel like he resents me or his perspective is flawed and he can’t even see beyond the past cause I’ve actually changed all the bad behaviors I had and I’m making great improvements but I feel he’s dragging me backwards. He’s always clamoring for peace but he doesn’t even make peace. He complains a lot about things and yet he tells me not to complain as it affects his mental health such as when I’m feeling cold and it’s a frequent thing for me. His standards are way to high and he acts as if he’s perfect in everything. He’s too critical in issues and he can’t have room for flaws but when he makes mistakes, I don’t even bug about it. I just try to find a solution for it. I even talked to his brother for the very first time about his behavior and I expected the brother to call him and explain things from his own opinion but nothing. I told him as he’s been the one saying I should be able to talk to his family but still he believes I’m the wrong one for expecting that his brother should call when I might not have categorically stated that he had to call him and he didn’t even hear my reasoning just that he was right