By Hope13167
I feel like I’m an outsider in my family,my mother treats so differently compared to my male siblings,She see me as a girl child who should do all the chores and clean up after my male siblings to a point where chores do not even exist to my 11 and 18 year old little brothers,I am 21. My relationship with my mother has never been smooth I lived with my grandmothers mostly to which wasn’t flowers and blossoms when living with my grandma( paternal side) and she was never in the picture until I was with my grandma( maternal) she would come vist once in a while but leave ubruptly and I’ll hear from her after a long while but maintained a great relationship with my little brother,went to his tennis matches and school plays. I have always been the black sheep
feeling secluded or treated like you are not impossible in your family can be really overwhelming especially when it's by your mother. Do you think it's possible that she may not be doing this intentionally? have you tried talking to her about how you feel?
She dismissed me multiple times and become defensive. All my siblings and I have different fathers and we are 3…so I’ve always seen how she treats them and how she does not mind talking to them or their dads but with me I’ve been told my father good for nothing whereas he has been involved in my life even better than she was at one point, even now that I live with her I still feel like she doesn’t necessarily live with me because we barely interact as she always as a her guard up she never wants to have a conversation for more than 2 minutes with me but she can have one with my other siblings
I am sorry she's been this way towards you. how have you been managing your car through this? Do you have people around to rely on for emotional support or activities that can help you feel happy?
I do but they can’t do anything because she comes hostile with them aswell if they try to intervene
She dismissed me multiple times and become defensive. All my siblings and I have different fathers and we are 3…so I’ve always seen how she treats them and how she does not mind talking to them or their dads but with me I’ve been told my father good for nothing whereas he has been involved in my life even better than she was at one point, even now that I live with her I still feel like she doesn’t necessarily live with me because we barely interact as she always as a her guard up she never wants to have a conversation for more than 2 minutes with me but she can have one with my other siblings
I am sorry she's been this way towards you. how have you been managing your car through this? Do you have people around to rely on for emotional support or activities that can help you feel happy?
I do but they can’t do anything because she comes hostile with them aswell if they try to intervene
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