Am a married man of 34 years old, our marriage will be 2 years soon. The only issue we always have is issue of sex. Since we got married up till now, my wife always complain when it comes to sex….we barely have sex up to 2 times in a month. Now we have a baby boy of 6months and this condition of sex gets worse. I love her and can’t have sex outside marriage, pls what should I do?
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It’s important to communicate your feelings and worries about intimacy in your marriage with your wife. Be open and honest in the discussion and try to be unbiased. Make it a safe space for you to share your opinions.
Make an effort to understand each other’s needs and expectations regarding intimacy. Seek counselling if the situation begins to affect your relationship. Sexual desire could reduce as a result of the stress of raising a child and taking care of household chores. To reduce her workload and encourage a more relaxed atmosphere, think about how you can help her around the house.
Lastly, try to be patient with your wife. It is common to experience this kind of changes after childbirth. Try to work together as a team and find ways to handle this situation with love and understanding.