Pls I need your advice.
I’m 25 years old, I have being in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1yr+. I noticed he always doesn’t want to talk about marriage, he either changes the topic or says I’m being desperate.
I’m not being desperate, my elder sis isn’t married yet. But I feel I need to know where the relationship is heading. His elder sis visited some months back and asked to see me, she kept asking what was our plans of settling down, I couldn’t answer bcos there is no plan.
I feel I deserve better bcos, I try to put in my best in my relationship, he always says his lucky to have me that I’m not like other girls.
Pls is anything wrong in trying to define my relationship, I can’t just be going with the flow. I think a man should know what he wants. Seems I aren’t included in his future, so he practically can’t say this is where or when we get married, but he can talk and plan about everything else. I’m just thinking about backing out now before it gets too late.
Kuro Briggs
Hello please try and find out if he is emotional and financially ready then that will guide you to know if he puts you in his plan.
Gloria Ayibakuro Jephthah
Is not wrong for you to ask your stand in a relationship,it is the right thing to do,for me I will say give him some time like six months and ask him again,if no better reply then back out and don’t reject suitors because of him