I got divorced due to a violent marriage and ever since I got divorced,I can’t seem to get my mind off d torture my ex gave to me and its affecting my new relationship.I’ve lost about 3 relationship due to this and sometimes I do what am not supposed to do and I don’t even realize am doing it..I need help please because I’ve completely lost myself
Anonymous
Hello please try and get a professional counsellor.
Anonymous
I can feel your trauma and pains. We all are unique beings. Carl Rogers a great psychologist will say man is kind, loving and everything good until proven otherwise. You cannot find a better partner until you free yourself of your fears and give is a trial. One man cannot represent millions out there. Wound caused by experience can only be healed by a counter one. It will also be good in the break of getting healed, to check critically at the excesses that contributed to the failed marriage, work on it so that history may not repeat in the second. Most importantly be positive that the next marriage will be better.