I had been in a relationship for almost 3years, my

I had been in a relationship for almost 3years, my fiancee is a very loving and caring man. I love him with everything I have but before I met him I use to keep many friends especially men, he was not pleased with this and I promise to stop. Truth to God I am not having any romantism affairs with these guys but am use to talking to them and at a point it’s very difficult for me to stop despite the fact that my fiance don’t like it. I developed the act of lying to him whenever I went to visit any of these my friend and he always caught me and know whenever I lied. Lying was the root of all our disagreement. He became suspicious and insecure and also reported me to my parents. He’s someone that talks anyhow especially when he’s hurt, the tone he use in reporting sounds offensive to my parents and they became angry as well. He concluded by saying my parents are taking sides,but sincerely they are not. I know my parents so well, they scold me and punished me but they didn’t show it to his face and because of this he said they are taking side. My dad made me vow to him that I had nothing to do with those guys except from the friendship I claim. He warned how dangerous it could be for me to be keeping men friends while I have a serious relationship going and told me to stop any friendship of such. But my fiancee expect my dad to scold me to his face and condemned the act but been an Africa man he thought that will hurt his ego. My fiancee was rude in the use of his words and my dad find it so disrespectful, they both got it wrong and here I am. I love this man so much, I want to convince him that my dad is not that kind of man that take side, I have two other sisters that are married and their husbands can testify to that. I also want to convince my dad that my fiancee is not this kind of man. I don’t want to loose them both. My fiance is no longer talking to me. I need advise, pls. Am growing weak all the time.