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I’m deeply hurt. My husband and I have been togeth
I’m deeply hurt. My husband and I have been togeth
By Anonymous
I’m deeply hurt. My husband and I have been together for 9 years without any major issues. I trusted him completely and loved him deeply. But on our 9th anniversary, I discovered he had been unfaithful. It felt like my entire world came crashing down. He eventually admitted to the affair, saying it had been going on for a year, and he apologized repeatedly. Since then, I’ve found myself acting in ways I never thought I would. I go through his phone, constantly checking to see if he’s seeing someone else. I question every call, every move he makes. My trust is shattered, and now I’m the one who seems like the problem. He’s growing tired, and I can feel it. I hate that I can’t seem to control my insecurities. It’s seriously affecting our marriage. I get overwhelmed with anger, especially when I see him interacting with female friends. I don’t want to be like this, but I’m struggling.
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zee
Betrayal can make you react in ways you never thought were possible, it's sad that you have had to experience this 🫂. Your are not a crazy person, you are hurting because you still can't understand why he would do something like this or betray the love you both share. It's normal to feel overwhelmed angry, and insecure after experiencing this type of hurt from your husband. What do you think could help you feel better and rebuild trust again going forward? Do you think he's still seeing other people, does his actions now match his apology?
Richilie
I honestly believe he’s still seeing other people. At home, he tries to act perfect, but I notice he deletes messages, locks some chats, and clears certain call logs. All of that just makes me feel like he’s still hiding something. Every time I confront him, he insists he made a promise not to hurt me—but his actions say otherwise. I haven’t been able to sleep. I feel like I’m falling apart mentally, and it’s even harder because I’m breastfeeding again. I cry every day and feel emotionally drained. It’s overwhelming, and I don’t know how much more I can take.and I can't even talk to anyone about it.
zee
it must be really draining for you right now. it's important you prioritise your wellbeing and that of your baby. Have you considered speaking with a therapist about how you have been feeling? therapy could help you get better clarity on how to manage the situation. if the situation with your husband continues, have you thought of how it would impact you and your child and wether or not you'd want to continue in the marriage?