It’s been 9 months since my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason,at first he ghosted me for the first 6months…I was loving each as it comes.i had so many Unanswered questions,I tried to do so many things to make my self happy but it was all futile..after 6months he called me and gave me closure over the phone I felt better until last week he called me to see me,I wey we had sex and since then have been triggered…I don’t know if I’m just obsessed but he clearly doesn’t want me back and I find myself trying so hard to make him love me but nothing is working,every other aspect of my life has been on standstill basically,other things or other people don’t interest me.my whole life is in shambles…I’m depressed I don’t know what to do
Anonymous
Hi dear I think you can actually know what he takes you for by his actions and you know the effect him being around you,I can only say my friend know your self.
Choose happiness or sadness.thanks
Anonymous
It’s a tough situation and I truly understand that. As much as you want the relationship, try loving yourself first as wanting to stick with him all along even after seeing the negative signs is not the best. You’ve got better years ahead. Focus on other things that give you joy for now to distract you from him.
Regards.
Anonymous
Sometimes as human,we forget our own happiness and try to please people that don’t value it,he does not love you,he just miss having sex with you,so will you continue to allow him play with your emotions and frustrate your peace of mind?.you allowed it to happen,you can also stop it. The future is bright my dear,if you don’t forgive and forget,you will keep falling for him and get hurt always because he doesn’t care about your emotions