After my secondary school with nothing doing I stayed indoor to avoid mockry comments from my friends so I developed this mindset that life is nothing sometimes I feel like a failure and I think a lot and it developed to severe headache and feeling tired and down all the time I hardly sleep the only friend I have now is my mobile phone I really need help
Anonymous
Hi,you are not a failure…sometimes what we want is at the other side of fear. First your relationship with God is key.Not everyone will tell you that,appreciating the young lady he made is another,cos comparing yourself with others causes you not 5o acknowledge his blessings.Some people are lying in the hospital and have spent all their resources there ,can’t go to school,can’t sing praises to God,can’t enjoy life the way they want to.
So God has a purpose for you ,be relevant ,try and volunteer ,help out ,get a job or learn a skill before you get into uni.
Desist from bad company as well,people that always pursue negative things in life .
Anonymous
Hi poster,I’ve been there before.I don’t know how long you’ve left secondary school.I lierally spent 7 years at home before I finally got an admission into the university.During those moments,I was frustrated and felt like a failure while watching my classmates go ahead of me.
Here’s the thing.There’s no rule that says you must get into the university immediately you’re done with secondary school.Some people don’t get the chance like for some who saw themselves in higher institution immediately after school.It doesn’t make those who didn’t get the chance less.Life has never been about how and when you started but it’s how you are ending.You need to be positive minded no matter what you are facing.Most importantly,you need to have a relationship with God for He knows how to turn things around for your good.