I’m in a live-in relationship where I don’t seems to understand what has been happening to us for the past 2 months. He suddenly change from the guy I fell in love with, I don’t know if am falling into depression or anxiety all I can understand is am no longer myself I mean the one I know myself to be. It’s affecting me seriously even at work I don’t concentrate anymore and always feel exhausted. He counts the littlest things that sorry could have solved at some point I feel like he’s intentionally blackmailing me emotionally cos even if he sees that am down with the particular situation, he’ll keep talking about it to make me understand how hurts he feels and the words he uses and the way he says it affects me emotionally, he doesn’t even give me a chance to express or explain myself in most situations and when he does allow me, he wouldn’t believe me always and act on his own concluded imagination which is always the negative interpretation of the whole situation even when I don’t mean it that way… Please what can I do cause am gradually Lossing myself I can feel it , I’m emotionally drained that I can’t even express my feelings and at the slight of his anger or those hurtful words I always feel like am hot as in I feel like am being beaten up .. am extremely traumatized right now
Anonymous
Hello dear.sometimes taking a little break will help and make you see if you are to still be in the relationship or to move on.
Anonymous
Honestly went through something similar first of if you can move out Its not easy the entire situation will make you really unhappy and angry but you need time for you and occupy yourself with something good ,and your friends to take your mind of jt
Thank you and I trust you should be fine