Good evening
So I am actually in a tough situation with my boyfriend. So last year I find out my bf was cheating and the girl got pregnant and that really made me distrust him but I forgave and we continued dating. This man revealed to me that he is also dating another girl and her father is very influential and he said the reason he is dating the girl is because of the connection and that he met her before me. He said he loves and care about me and the girl in question he just want the connection and security coming from the girl end. I am tired thinking about this, I am a good girl, I don’t cheat, I don’t double date, what else does he want. He was my first everything and he choose to hurt me this way. So don’t men date girls like me,who is not from a wealthy home.so does it mean men won’t date me because of that 😭. This boy keeps hurting me every time. He doesn’t even care about my feelings anymore, he can go for days without talking to me. Honestly I am tired. If he had told me he was seeing someone before me I wouldn’t have agreed to date him. Always telling me he is busy, well I guess this is how life is.
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I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. take the time you need to process your emotions, allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel-sadness, anger, disappointment and any other emotions that comes up. You might it helpful find talking to a trusted friend, family member or a counsellor about how you are feeling.
It’s important have a conversation with your partner about how you feel, be prepared for any possible outcome, including the possibility of ending the relationship. decide on what you want for yourself and for the relationship; if you can forgive him and move pass this.
Remember you deserve to be treated with respect, honesty and loyalty in your relationship.