I have been in a relationship with this guy since

I have been in a relationship with this guy since my SS2, while he was in SS3, a year older than me. We attended the same primary school different secondary school and different university but the same church. He was caring, prayerful, always motivate me and lot more
I was in my year 3 was 21 and he was year 4 was 22 my elder sisters read my WhatsApp message and found out I have been in a relationship with this guy in our church and they asked me to break up with him in there presence with the phone on speaker. My 6 elder sisters said he his not right for me.
He kept calling, pleading if he has offended me. I just kept crying because my elder sisters words are final to my parents.
I graduated, went for NYSC finished and I was luck to get a job immediately
He went into business. I started attending church service, he approached my mum and plead to my mum that he wants to marry me, my mum said he should go and pray well and she will also pray. My mum said this was the 3rd time
We started dating again without anyone’s knowledge but now he has some characters I don’t know him with before
He talks rudely to me sometimes saying I ask questions like old women, he don’t compliments, he claims he his busy,
I don’t know when he his less busy,
He can’t give me definite answer about his work load. If I come around to visit he just keep busy with his phone sometimes watch movie with hear piece and I will have to press my phone or sleep off. There is no communication again to me.
Anytime I try to raise the issue he will be like I have started with my complain that all I should know is that the love is in his heart it can’t change

I don’t know if am the one counting things
He doesn’t like me lacking anything, he can go extra miles to met up with my needs
Same has me ,I try to be of help in his business and surprise him with gifts also.

I don’t know if I should follow the word of my sisters because I still love him