Growing up i had the feeling that my mom loved my eldest sister than me so from there i started feeling no one loves me and whenever anything bad happens i just feel the world is against me so right now i don’t know if i have trauma or it’s just the way i feel and now my boyfriend calls me a narcissist i don’t know why and i think he’s the narcissist here not me because he reads so much about narcissist so everything is confusing me and tiring right now because whatever i say or do is always used against me….like when i ask for his phone he says I’m a narcissist, when i tell him to delete someone’s contact because I’m not comfortable with the person he says that’s how a famale narcissist behaves and just because I’m not a friend person like making friends or keeping friends he also see that as me being a narcissist he says all of these whenever we’re having issues in our relationship that i demand for him to always praise me for a fact how can a guy say that isn’t he supposed to praise me as his girlfriend or can’t i tell him to say he loves me jokingly? Because he sees all that as me being toxic and a narcissist why i want to know i really want to know if I’m a narcissist because he says i make issues complicated whereas he’s the one who does that all the time
Anonymous
Dear , ask him in what way you’re a narcissist and ask him to tell you the right way to believe. Generally when choosing a friend,is suppose to be someone who can understand, listen and trust ,if you both can’t do this three I bet you don’t really love each other. Try as much as possible to really check it if you’re one ,and look for a way to change