I’m considered the black sheep of the family. I feel my mom hates me. I get angry easily, keep to myself from my family to avoid them(my own way of avoiding troubles and outburst). The 3rd born of five sisters from small I’ve been called ugly and stubborn even now mentally unstable and negative words tend to take a toll on me. I just don’t want to have an outburst
Anonymous
Its rare for a mum to hate the child. After carrying for 9 months and breastfeeding. You won’t have an outburst by the grace of God. Be true to yourself and tell yourself positive words of encouragement
Anonymous
You might need to take a break for now.
And there are a lot you could work on, if you are ready to.
Please spare yourself the outbursts, your mental health is very important.
Anonymous
It’s not rare for a mother to hate her child.. As a matter of fact, it’s very possible. I’m the first born and daughter and I can tell you my mother can’t stand my presence.. I don’t know what I did so terribly wrong, I am the most respectful in the house cos my siblings are all rude brats but somehow anything I do doesn’t get by them.. It’ll be escalated X10 especially by my mother. Right now I have no where to go and I am tired of running away from home. What did I do? I accepted it.. I accepted that I will never be enough to them no matter how I try.. I felt a bit at peace after acknowledging that. So I’m living my life unbothered now. I greet them(her) then I do my thing.. I think I’m in that stage where I feel numb to everything but I’m grateful for that. So dear, accept it, seek God, live your life and most importantly love yourself and try to be productive.. When you make it in life, they’ll kill themselves just to seek your attention and affection.
Anonymous
Don’t you think “hate” is a strong word?