My dad is the worst thing that ever happened to me. So selfish all way round very abusive to my mom. Hit do beat her up so hard when I was growing up and I still remember that. When I was 7 I still remember my dad sleeping with our house helps. Sometimes buy biscuit and ask us to go play outside for him to do his thing. He continue sleeping with different house help that do stay with us till I clock 15 my mom swore never to get anyone for house chores. My dad don’t appreciate my mom by showing some love like buying her stuff. I can remember when she was sick my younger bro went outside to but her food he become pissed off with it. Around march this year which was his birthday my mom did a surprised birthday for him with few friends. It was a lavish party. Last month was my mom birthday and he didnt give her anything not like we are expecting much at least prayers or wishes he didn’t. My sibling planned a little party and presents for her. Some hours later he came downstairs shouting on top of his voice telling my mom to go back her car inside the compound or he will push it off at this point I was tensed and we can’t find her key because of the party. Weirdest part is that he call himself an Evangelist. Lol…2 years after he opened a church the church collapse. Actually, the building sink in…My father don’t support us in anyway he do ask me,my bro, my mum for money when he is down and we assist him with what we can. But when he have money he will become a terrorist. When having issues with my siblings he will always come to take side and be more closer to the other person then condemn you by bringing hatred between siblings. Who does that? He slapped me this because I told him it was not right doing such to his own kids especially to my twin sister. Stuff like this do after the other and I nearly got blind for that. He don’t speak to my mum since her birthday till date. This morning he just called me an Idiot because he didn’t hear me say Good morning which I did. It really pissed me off because this is not a good way to start a good day. More reason I need to type her to find a relief I can go on and on and on. I am 23 and getting tired already.
Anonymous
Greetings my dear, having an abusive father is something that is not very good to you, health and your family. I understand you are depressed,but focusing more on your future, dreams and potential is most important thing for now. Have you though of giving your father some space at home(not moving out of the house) but ignoring his actions most times, avoid anything that will cause trouble and insult because reading your story,I feel your father is have a hard time with him self,you may never know.lastly make your mother happy by being happy also and always support her no matter what also your father