I’ve been married for over 10years and I have been unable to secure a job. In the middle of all this, my husband, though responsible to his duties as a father, has cheated on me a few times. He recently blocked me on WhatsApp claiming that my troubles are a lot and that he didn’t want me to make a big deal on some pictures he was posting on his status was the reason he did it. I can be very unwilling to bend sometimes when I demand answers but that only stems from my insecurities and trust issues. He hides his phone from me and claims it’s nothing. I just feel I’m facing all these because I don’t have a job to go to. I want to stop caring about what he does but I just keep finding myself in the same hole over and over again. I just want to know how to stop loving and caring about him or whatever he does.
Anonymous
Hi.good day marriage can’t exist without love or care after all that is one of the reasons marriage was established.picking out on your joblessness might still not be the cause.why don’t you try and remember those thing you do back in the days that made him crazy over you. Why don’t you pull those performance back it might just help.
Anonymous
Greetings also instant of waiting for a job that is not forth coming,have you thought of having your own business?,that time you use to think about his wrongs,while not make it for your own good and for the family