😪😪😪I always wanted my dad to be my best friend but he was never there when i needed him😢😪😪😪instead he hurts my feelings he makes me feel at if am not his daughter i always wanted us to have a father and daughter relationship but 😢everything went down i don’t know how a father’s love is i don’t know what it feels like 😭😭😭he feels everything is money.. 😭😭😭I always pray my children won’t go through this pains i am going through now 😭😭its not easy….he is not even bothered about seeing me 😭😭
Anonymous
So sorry dear it is very sad when a parent fails to understand their child and his or her needs, you need to see a therapist my friend.
Anonymous
I love the prayer that your children will not experiencr same thing you are experiencing,you are realy good. There are somany factors that could be the reason behind your dads action,talking with a counsellor can help you understand this and it will bring forth positive results.
Anonymous
Thank you all 😊
Anonymous
Hope you are good today? Its nice to read your deep feeling and regret.
This is all I can say and it may help someone.
I have always felt disappointed with my dad until I discovered he is an imperfect human. Sometimes, they get to love us their own way and do not know the best ways to communicate their love to us. It would have helped if he had tried to talk to you. But do not giveup. Be the grown up and reach out to him while you still have him around. If listen to the song “dance with my father”.
You would value the time with him as a second chance to make amends. No one has to be right or wrong, we all just have to be happy.
Anonymous
True but my father doesn’t stay with me 😪😪😪😪he doesn’t come to vist too
Anonymous
Hope you are good today?
I spoke with a lady who lost her strong dad last week.
You know what she says…
“If he were in another state, I would do all to meet with him…but I cannot see him again, until we are reconciled in resurrection”.
Would you keep giving excuses or start now to create all the memories you want with your dad?
Let every moment count dear!
Anonymous
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Her case is different she had a relationship with him but mine he doesn’t want to have a relationship with me anytime i talk to him about it he gets angry and start quarreling with me…. Create memories from where sir….. Even the day i told him i love you 😪😭😭he said thank you that was not what I expected to hear in returns how can i make memories with someone who doesn’t want to be close to me….the other day he called me and accused me of things i didn’t do🤦♀️🤦♀️how can i make memories with him sir
Anonymous
Dear friend, sometimes love can be silent and subtle.
Just keep praying for him.
My dad was not the best, at some point, I saw him as an enemy.
But I reminded myself that humanity means imperfection. And imperfection means lack of sufficient knowledge.
Keep loving and praying for him..it is way cheaper than the toxicity of hate.
Anonymous
Sir i am tired of praying 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️i don pray tire no changes
Anonymous
Hey! As for your father’s actions it may not change now so I suggest you give him some space. Continue life without him & also talk to a professional about the effect his actions may have had on you
Anonymous
Ok dear