Hello everyone I am 21yrs, got pregnant for a guy in my area , we both love each other suddenly he change to me he don’t help any more he don’t even use to give a dime to support me, and he do help his ex and some other people , what can I do , the thing is really hurting me
Anonymous
I’m so sorry for whatever you are going through right now. How are you feeling, by the way?
When someone changes in actions and behaviours, it means a lot. And now, probably he’s scared or he’s not ready to take care of a child now. Hence, his sudden change in behaviour.
Does the guy even have enough resources to take care of himself not to talk about the baby?
My question now is, what do you wanna do? Can you take care of the baby without him?
I’ll advise you to do take care of yourself. You matter, dear. With this pregnancy comes greater responsibilities.
And next time, please, use contraception. It’s very important you use protection because you know you are not ready to take care of a child yet.
Do take care of yourself now.