I’m having issue controlling my emotions and anger since my partner start cheating and anytime, I tried to confront him with the issue, he is going to tell me they are just his bedmates.
So, I accept whatever story he tells me, not until when he started rough handling me. Anytime we have arguments; he’s trying to me pet or trying to calm me down. Should I continue this relationship, or I should opt out because I’m getting tired of him already.
Anonymous
It sounds like you are going through a challenging time in your relationship. It’s understandable that you are feeling angry and hurt due to your partner’s infidelity and the way he’s been treating you during arguments.
However, it’s not acceptable for your partner to handle you roughly or use physical force to try to calm you down. This behavior is not only unacceptable but also a form of emotional and physical abuse. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in your relationship.
You need make the decision on whether you want to keep this relationship going or not. But it’s essential to remember that you deserve a partner who treats you well and brings you peace. If you believe that your partner’s actions are hurting you more than helping you, it may be time to think about ending the relationship with them and getting support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you move on and heal.