My partner and i got back together recently after a break up. Now that we’re back together, i don’t love them like before. Like the little things i could tolerate piss me off. I don’t want to lose feelings because I feel bad for them and i don’t want to leave them or lose them. I don’t know what to do. Whether i should talk about it with them, or give myself to time to see if I’ll fall in love again. I don’t know
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It is possible you have already moved on from them that’s why it is seeming difficult to reciprocate emotions or tolerate the excesses you would have easily overlooked. It is best you communicate to your partner about how you are feeling; you both might be able to find ways to resolve the situation before it gets out of hand. You might also consider ending the relationship so you both can heal and move on rather than dwelling in a relationship that is full of toxicity and emotional stress.
Try not to lose yourself as you decide on what to do. You may want to seek counselling from a trained counsellor if you need help on how to handle this situation; also stay close to friends and family that help you feel safe. engage in activities that brings peace and can ease the tension you feel. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who loves, respects and supports.
Charles Omofuma Ituah
Relationships are never easy and most times what we once desired in a partner does not actually feel true or real, especially after a breakup in cases such as a reconciliation which you have done, some unhealed wounds and baggage still seem to sip it and this can really cause a mess even when we try to fix things.
So the best way out of this is to have a real and honest conversation with your partner on the next steps and going forward what you actually desire in your partner and what can they offer you or do that will help you both heal and find your balance again.
No matter how much you try, old skins cannot hold new wine so it will break even when you try your hardest to fix things.
So this is where both of you need to find common ground and see things from a different perspective so the healing process can finally begin.