Four years in marriage now. Have been enduring all through. My husband insult me and my brings family to it when we argue. He told me I’m frustrating is life. He reports me to his mum, when I wrong him.
His mum called me and told me that marriage is not by force, that if a marriage is tied with a rope it can be loose. The elder sister told me that I don’t deserve her brother, I’m maltreating him.
Few days ago, my husband told me that I’m a mistake. What happened was he gave me 300k to keep for him, it’s for house rent and child’s school fees. I invested the money in the wrong hand. I was scammed and when I realized I was scammed I didn’t know where to start. How will I approach him and tell him about it. I hold it to myself, praying about it, until recently he asked me how much is left of the money, I told him and he said I’m a mistake and I should go back to my parents house or refund the money.
I pleaded with him that I will take responsibility. I’m a graduate not working right now but I will go out and look for a job and refund the money. He said a lots of things that I can’t say here. It’s breaks my heart. I feel like dying, I don’t belong here,I’m not value, I’m empty don’t know where to find peace for my soul. He complains a lot about everything I do. I just need someone to talk to and ease the burden in my heart. He is a perfectionist, he feel everything he does is right.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. How do you usually cope with these feelings, and is there anyone you feel safe talking to about what you are experiencing? How do you plan on repaying the money back to your husband?