Our relationship will be 2 years this April,I love him is an understatement,coz he always shows it in anyway he could that he loves and cares for me too.
Late last year,I had issues with my phone and I was having virtual classes,he did not even think about it twice before releasing his laptop to me( one of the sacrifices he do make),in fact I took it home for the December holiday.
I need to download an app to the laptop and I had to on hotspot for it,and his Instagram messages entered,and I read this particular chat of his with a girl,I was so shocked because I never believed he could be a memeber of men are scum association. I confronted him and told him I was done,everybody that knew about it begged me to give him the last chance,the issue went on for weeks,with him also apologizing night and day,I agreed to take him back,but I don’t trust him anymore,not even little of trust do I have in him left,but I still love him.
What do I do,end things or build up trust again,he knows I don’t trust him anymore and he’s trying to be transparent and I but I’m just so interested.
Truthshare
Hello.
Trust is an essential component in a healthy relationship, and it is built on honesty, open communication, and consistency. your boyfriend has given you reasons to not trust him and it can be challenging to rebuild that trust.
However, if you can move pass this; it is possible to rebuild trust. But you both need to be honest and truly communicate because a relationship that can stand the test of time is one which was built on the foundation of commitment, communication, honesty and love.
Ultimately, the decision to trust someone is up to you, and it is important you listen to your intuition and make decisions that are in your best interest.