I’m currently in a complicated relationship and I don’t know how to forge ahead. We have been dating for 5 years and this year he told me his family saw a revelation that if we end up getting married we will get divorced after some time. He decided to break up with me and I’m so confused on what to do. We never had issues while in the relationship it’s all just so confusing.
Anonymous
Hello dear.
You and your partner should be able to make decision concerning this issue and decide on whether you still want to continue with the relationship. It is going to be a tough decision to make because your relationship has been built for years now.
You can both try talking to the family or seek the counsel of a therapist to help you both through these tough times and also help you cope the stress and all the emotions that comes with this type of situations.
Ultimately, it might be advisable to move on from the relationship if there’s no change in the situation in times ahead to save you from having to deal with a family maltreating you later on.
Remember you are valuable and worthy to be loved and nobody is permitted to treat you like you don’t matter.