I’m a university student and I’ve done something really bad. I had sex with a boy after 3 days of talking now I’m emotionally damaged. I don’t know if I’m pregnant. My mum would kill me if it turns out I’m knocked up and my friends, neighbors, course mates and everyone will mock me.
My life is screwed over. What should I do? Are you sure I’ll be okay? God will punish me. I’m supposed to loose it on the night of my honeymoon. I’m scared and I’m bad at decision making.
Truthshare
It’s important that you try to stay calm and not over react. If you’re worried about being pregnant, you should take a pregnancy test to confirm.
Consider talking to a counselor to help you process your feelings and emotions. Also, reach out to a trusted friend or family member who you can confide in. They can provide emotional support on how to handle this situation. Use this as an opportunity to learn from your choices and make better decisions in the future.
Love
How can I take the test. Also is it possible for me to erase some part of my memory. There are some stuff I really need to forget.
Truthshare
It’s not really possible to easily erase a memory. Try to not let the situation bother you too much. Stay calm and remember that no matter the outcome you will be fine.
You have to take a test 21days after you have had unprotected sex. You could go to a pharmacy to run the test or buy a pregnancy test strip, read through the instructions and run the test at home.
Love
I would like to talk to a counselor but is it free? I don’t have money.