My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago. I knew he was making a mistake. He said he felt like he wasn’t giving me what I deserve. Today I told him how he hurt me and how he was so quick to give up on us. He has been begging me since to take him back and that he knows how to handle the situation better now. He said he feels like he’s dying, and he has made the worse decision of his life. I don’t know if I should take him back or not because I cried so much. I told my family and friends, and they were there for me. Now the only reason why I can’t take him back is that I’ll feel humiliated because I already made mouth to people that I’m not going back. And I’m sure they won’t take me serious again. And what if he breaks up with me again. We’ve both agreed to give ourselves time. I also want to use this period to focus on myself And I’m still in love with him and I don’t know what to do. At the same time, people don’t really change. I feel he’s still going to do the same thing.
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I am sorry for the emotional turmoil this whole situation might have caused you. Don’t feel pressured or be in a hurry to take him back, take all the time you need to weigh the possibilities of the relationship and how it can impact your life. You may need to address the issues that led to the breakup and be sure you are both willing to work on yourselves and the relationship if you choose to give him a second chance.
Also, pay no mind to what others will think about it. It’s your life and only your opinion matters. Relationship is built on love, trust, healthy communication and loyalty, if you both put in the effort, you can make the best out of your relationship.
Speak to close friends, family member or a counsellor if you need more help on how to navigate through this situation.
Anonymous
I already spoke to a family member about it and i was advised to block him. If i do that I’m probably going to die of guilt. I don’t see myself blocking him
Anonymous
At the end of the day, it is important to put your own wellbeing and mental health first. They are trying to protect you; that is why they may not want you to speak to him or keep in contact with him as a result of the hurt and pain he caused you. Try talking to them also, you might be able to change their perception of him.