Hmmm I’m 20, in a relationship for three years.
Presently in school
And the relationship really has a lot going on.
I really love this guy tho he’s not finacially okay and I help a lot.
I sacrifice a lot making money for us.
And I feel he doesn’t respect me.
I have always told him how he’s making me feel and he apologize and anytime I break up, he cries and beg and we back together.
He forget our anniversary, doesn’t celebrate my birthday while I celebrate his like a king☹️☹️
He treats like imma option not a necessity and I really love him😭😭.
And I don’t wanna lose the relationship but I cry a lot.
What can I do
Truthshare
Your feelings are completely understandable. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness in a relationship. Try to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you feel. Share your concerns, express your needs, and let him know how his actions affect you.
Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counsellor. They can provide you with good guidance and support in how to go about the situation.
Focus on your self-care and personal development, being apart for a little while might give you clarity, allow you understand your feelings and why you are in the relationship; consider taking a break for now and prioritize your educational or vocational growth.
You should be with someone who respects and values you.