My marriage will be 2years in 2days time. I mistakenly found out like 2days after our wedding that he cheated like few months to our wedding, I forgave him but he constantly finds faults in everything I do; like: if I miss church services or don’t pray, (are you sure you are a mother and a wife like this) I have married you already there’s nothing I can do. If I’m sewing clothe, I’ve wasted money to buy all this machine for you, how can you be spending a day to sew just a Top. He is the one that provides for the family, I’m yet to find a Job. I love him but when he starts his negative behaviour I feel sad and downgraded. What hat should I do?
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Communication and understanding is key for any marriage to work and so is respect. Talk to your husband, honestly express how his actions and words makes you feel. You can also seek counseling for proper guidance on how to handle your emotions and you husband’s behavior.
Continue to be a great wife, stay hopeful and persistent you will get a job soon. Remember you deserve to be loved and treated with utmost respect.