Actually, I have been in a relationship for 2 years now, but it doesn’t seem it’s real. He doesn’t call, text or even check up on me to know how am doing he is always busy and making out excuses. I just feel he is not just interested in me anymore or maybe he has someone else, but he could have told me.
I have never felt this way towards any other guy or maybe its cos he is my first love and my time being in a relationship.
Am just so confused.
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I am sorry you feel this way and I understand that being with a partner who doesn’t know how to communicate or give attention can be tiring.
Try to have an honest conversation with your partner about how you are feeling; it might be possible that there are other issues lurking in the relationship that he has not brought to your attention yet. It could also be that he is dealing with personal issues that you don’t know of hence the change in attitude but with effective communication it can be resolved.
If after communicating there is no change in your partner’s behavior, then it is also possible he is no longer interested in the relationship. It is important that you focus on your own wellbeing; accept that lovers grow apart and move on from each other rather than staying with someone that doesn’t care about you.