I am dating a single dad 🥺I met him when he was with him baby mama because his not married, they were not together, and they were having issues he told me things where complicated till they separated, and the woman left.
We have dated for 1 years and 9 months now I do take care of the child 4 years old girl all of a sudden he told me that the woman wants to come and carry the child for just visit and I was angry that he didn’t discuss with me , later that day he said she won’t be carrying her again that she will come and visit herself and she will spend 2 days I agreed but later I started having strange feelings that something will happen since I stay in my hostel and his alone with the child in the house but he said he will ask his own mum to stay back till the baby mama leaves.
I was still not okay, so I went to the house the that the baby mama came which was yesterday. I greeted my boyfriend’s mum, helped her prepare food and she ate I went to my boyfriend he was angry I came and all that then I asked him why was he deceiving the little girl today I will play a roll of a mother, she even calls me mum and another day the baby mama will come to play the roll a mom and u ask him to choose who he want to mother his child that since she left before is over for them she should not come and spoil my own and he got angry and slapped me.
He left then he sent me a text message that he does not want to meet me in the house that I won’t like what he will do to me. The baby mama removed her clothe and was wearing singlet and tied wrapper on her waist I became angry and sent him a voice note telling him what she was wearing, and I left before I got to my hostel because I am a student, he sent me a message saying he does not want to see me in his house and in his life, I should let him be.
I am in pain; I am so confused I don’t know what to do.
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I am sorry you had to experience this heart-breaking and confusing situation. It is crucial you prioritize your safety and emotional wellbeing first; your boyfriend slapping you should give you a reason to reevaluate your relationship with him. It might be helpful to speak with a counsellor, trusted friend or family member, they can provide you the guidance and emotional support to help you through your feelings.
When you feel calm, you could try having a conversation with your boyfriend, try talking about your feeling and concerns to him. Also try to hear him out because clear communication is important for a relationship to work out.
Every relationship is unique but remember you deserve to be with someone who values and respects you.