I have a very rocky relationship with my brother. It hurts me to see him behave this way. We’ve had a very dicey relationship for many years and I’ve really tried on my part to make It work. The Holy Spirit speaks to me about this situation and I put him in my prayers. But at this point, I’m fed up and at the verse of giving up.
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It’s sad to learn about the difficult circumstances you and your brother have found yourselves in. It can be challenging to deal with the complex dynamics that often occur in family relationships. It is clear that you have put a lot of effort into trying to resolve this issue; and it is inspiring that you have turned to your faith for guidance and comfort.
Patience, understanding, and open communication are necessary when dealing with complex relationships between families. For the sake of encouraging a healthier and more positive relationships between you and your brother, it may be good to look into different ways or to seek professional support, a family psychologist or counsellor can give you a new perspective on your family’s dynamics and teach you efficient methods to improving communication and resolving disputes. These experts are good at establishing a safe and supportive atmosphere where all family members can honestly communicate with one another about their opinions and emotions.
Keep your brother in your prayers, asking for wisdom and healing. Even when no immediate changes take place, praying may bring you an overwhelming feeling of peace and serenity.
Also, it’s important you know that takes time and for bonds to grow stronger, trust to be rebuilt, and for hurts to heal. Throughout this process, patience is needed because pressing or rushing your brother to make amends or change might backfire. It is imperative to believe that, given enough time and effort, healing and reconciliation are possible.