I’m 14. Born on February 14 and also fell in love in January 14. My partner is 10 years older than me so he’s practically 24. Funny part is that he was also born on February 14. We love each other deeply and I’m 100% sure about that. I trusted him to the extent that I decided to have sex with him. He works for my dad and he basically seed himself as a slave. We’ve been through a lot of things and a lot of break ups together. Our relationship is a secret but they are still people who are trying to tear us apart. But something happened and we broke up on November 2 which was yesterday. He still has 3 years left before he’s done with serving my parents and now I have to live with him for those three years. I love him so much and I’ve gotten depressed. He first told me that he might come back after he’s done serving and now he’s telling me to move on. I’m seriously breaking down and the worst part is that he has a lot of girls who would die to have him (all of his exes included) and I know that might decide to date one of them. I fell in love too early and now I can’t handle this pain. It’s too much for me to beat. I feel like dying. I need help. Any sort of help at all. I can’t handle this any longer. He looks happy while I’m busy suffering. I don’t want him to leave. I can’t even remember how many times I’ve stayed awake all night crying because of him. I feel useless. I can’t move on. I just wish that I would just die
Anonymous
I guess I’m just stupid. No one’s willing to help me right now
Anonymous
Breakups can be hard and usually hard to move on. But it is said that Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
You just never know what’s around the corner, and you can’t hold the hand of who you’re supposed to be with until you let go of the hand you’re currently holding. There’s good in every situation, and in order to get through a tough break up and on to the next chapter in your life, you have to appreciate that what you had may have been good, but something better is on its way, and you’re a stronger person now because of what you’ve been through.
Anonymous
Thank you so much for your advice… But i had sex with him. What do I do about that?? I’m just 14
Anonymous
Forgive yourself and him first, so that you can move on with your life
Esther Ogbomo
Hey dear you are really young and you will meet a lot of people out there it’s not easy right now but with time you would forget him focus on other things you like and try to give him space to clear your head