My mind is filled with pains right now. I met this guy on WhatsApp guess he stole my number from my brothe.we became friends on WhatsApp after 2 months we met. The second time we met we went swimming ND ended up making love in the pool I fell in love with him, I thought he did too cause he asked me to be his girlfriend the 3rd time we met, though I didn’t say yes but we made love again that day after much persuasion from him. So we started dating. We are staying close so I visit him once in a month and it’s always in a hotel, the only thing that always happens is just sex infact the memories we have is just attached to sex. When he comes around my area I do go to his friend’s house to see him ND sex always happens. Its more like it’s a one sided love cos he only calls me at night, ND in front of his sister nd female workers he acts like we are just friends and if I ask him why he would say he is trying to avoid something. I love him so much but I don’t he loves me too cos am never in his mind except at night and I don’t want a one sided relationship. I have always told him about his attitude and he wouldn’t still do anything about it. And right now it looks like am nagging. I texted him yesterday night telling him about it and he only gave me a missed call which I returned but he didn’t pick up till now.
Dear counselor what do u think I should do.
Anonymous
Greetings, relationship is not about sex , is a time of getting to know each, making good memories. Still talk to him,make him to see reason with you but if he is not ready,take a very good decision for yourself