I don’t know how to make this short but I’d just skip to it..
So a friend of mine(I’d like to call him that) meddled in my relationship and told me partner things about me I’d have said at the right time on my own, it looks like they enjoy each others company and may even have feelings for each other.I’m just tired! Why will someone even do that to a person, now my partner is an ex now and calls me evil, sketchy and all sort of names you can think of because someone said things to him which 80% was a lie but I didn’t debunk any.
My relationship always take a complete turn for the worse.
Tell me what do I do?
Should I be without friends in other to have a successful relationship?
Or should or stop dating and focus on me ?
I pretty much do things to please others and it’s my nature I can’t chnage.
Anonymous
Hi dear I think side talks must always be in any relationship and staying without friends too can be bad.look within yourself and make adjustments in the different thung you think is the cause of the problems.
Anonymous
Sweetheart, it is good that you focus on yourself. Build you self worth and work with it until you are fit to keep a relationship. And just when you get into a relationship be sure to know that no relationship stands with secrets. You must be 100% open and honest with your partner right from the beginning. It is better they hear the worst of you from the start and learn to live with it than hearing it from a 3rd party later into the relationship.