I feel so depressed and I want someone to help me out,, I have been in a relationship for almost three years now,, the guy just got married of which I know Very well about,, but I haven’t met his wife,, cos I haven’t seen her.. when I accepted the relationship after two weeks I got to know his wife,, one day he uploaded her pic,, I knew the girl before,, I was surprised,, I wanted to end everything but I couldn’t because I was very much Inlove with the boy ,, We kept the relationship a secret but after some months later the wife got to know and she got very angry because she knows me very well and threatened to do all sort to me,, but actually she didn’t do anything,, she became enemies,, I Nd the guy kept on dating till my conscience couldn’t stand it any longer,, I started showing attitudes to push him away but still he kept coming and doesn’t want to breakup,, he started behaving as if he loves me more than his family of which my conscience could not take anymore,, I entered into another relationship aside him,, a single guy who he is no merge to him in terms of anything,, the guy doesn’t text me as much this married guy do text me,, asin the married guy is just everything in terms of care,, love,, respect,, gives money if he has,, he loves me but this single guy doesn’t text much,, doesn’t respect me ,, I really don’t know if I should continue my relationship with the married guy or discontinue or probably stay with the single guy if he will change or just stay single,, I just regretted going into any relationship at first ,, I feel so bad of myself.. please somebody should tell me what to do😭😭😭
Anonymous
Well,the first question is What are your values?Because one thing you must realise is ,you can fall in love with anyone and the fact that someone gives you attention doesn’t mean you both must be in a relationship, It must not be him …Because someone else can give you the same attention and love.
So its a question of your values,what principles do you live by.Would you be with guy with no integrity, who tells his wife he loves her and ends up in your bed.And secondly, What does God think?.Men may have their opinions on what is good or bad,but God is the foundation of truth.So that’s a question you should answer.
Remember if someone else gave you that same attention you will probably love that person.
Anonymous
Remember these two men aren’t the only
People out there. If you’re a principled person that would not date a married guy then break up with him, and you also don’t deserve to be in a relationship where you’re not given the attention you want. Live your single life & be happy, love will find you❤️