Hi. I am a girl of 24 years old. I feel like I am being taken as a second choice in everything. I feel worthless like no one wanted me for me. I saw a guy I am having sex currently constantly sees his ex. I feel broken and shitty any time I see them. I am not dating this guy but I just feel pain. What should I do?
I am feeling down and suicidal. Its been a pattern I want to stop. But how can I break off the whole thing?
Anonymous
Life is hard, relationships are harder. He sees his ex while having sex with you therefore showing his utter disregard for you. He is a cheap man who is obviously just using you for sex. Please don’t continue letting him use you. He does not deserve you. How you feel for him cannot be helped, I get it. The human emotions are sometimes stronger than what we can handle but you have to realize that what is meant for you will come. There’s something out there for everyone, you just have to be patient. Don’t chase a man cause you feel bad, you’ll only end up feeling worse.
Read and meditate on the Bible. I’m a Jehovah’s Witness. Here’s my number: 08141818268. Text me if you’re interested in a free bible study. The Bible offers practical help on how to deal with situations like this. Draw close to God and he will draw close to you. You’ll feel better when you talk to God about it. Don’t be afraid of judgement. Approach him with a sincere heart and tell him your problem. Cheer up and be strong. I totally understand how you feel. Trust me.
Anonymous
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Just what I needed. Thank you for not judging.