Please I don’t know what to do, I am married for over 13 years now, but I don’t have sexual feelings for my husband, anytime he needs sex I have to get myself drunk in order to have sex with him and many times I will refuse, this went on for long, I have 4 children for him, I later met another man and fell in love and got pregnant for him and have a set of twins, initially the man told me he is married but had issues with the wife and the wife left him, but when I was heavily pregnant, I discovered he still stay with his wife, he and his wife lives in another city while I live in another city. Because of complications in my pregnancy, I couldn’t manage my business Bcos I was on bed rest and the business collapsed, and I have always been the one providing for my family as my husband practically does nothing for a living. Loosing my business wasn’t easy on me, but the man I am pregnant for rented a house for me and my children and gives us weekly money to feed. This man and his wife don’t have any child for over 10 years of marriage and the wife is not happy about my affair with the husband. This man lives with his wife and comes once every 2 to 3 months to see me and the children. My husband is constantly disturbing me to come out to his one room apartment or a hotel to have sex with him but I can’t just bring myself to do it, I am trying to get money and leave the man house but my husband keep disturbing me about this, I just don’t know what to do
Anonymous
Hello do your husband know that you have a child for someone else?
Are you divorced or you have intentions.
What if the other man just wants a child from you and your husband still loves you.
What if you don’t have sexual urge for your husband because he is broke
What if the new man becomes broke too will you still love him or have urge for him.
I think you should think of all these seneriors maybe you can find your answer.