I have had 3 relationships which the guys eventually leave me for another. I finally got married and same thing happened. I am a very successful independent career lady. In the relationships i always try to be at my best, so they take that for granted, so when it gets to me and I try to react, it brings about resentment. Right now I feel broken cos I was dating this guys for almost 2 yrs, he was putting up with me and I was taking care of him financially b4 he gets a steady income. I never knew he was at my place and in the relationship. Travelled to his village to engage a lady who resides in the UK. I got to find out about all these when I woke up one day and found one of my car and some belongings in the my apartment gone, he blocked all his contact both phone and social media handles. I only found out when I logged on a new account. The relationships was okay b4 all these took place. Right now I feel so bad and depressed. I feel terrible and shattered. My self worth and esteem is crushed. I cry my self to sleep most night. I can’t seem to get over it after 3 months. I just need to speak out. I can’t tell friends and family cos I am ashamed and I don’t want to get judged.
Anonymous
Wow. I cant even say what I will do in your situation. I haven’t experienced such. Firstly you have to forgive yourself for allowing him use you like that. Really this can happen to anybody and its not entirely your fault. But what you do next is your total responsibility. If I may ask, what do you want right about now?
Anonymous
I have been emotionally down. I am so scared of any relationship ever again. I cant forgive myself for being so stupid. I somehow got his UK number. I feel like hurting him down. But my conscience wont allow me. So help me God!
Anonymous
Such situations makes life seems to be unfair,No matter what we will always have someone who will love us they way we want but our standard or view about what we really want makes the difference.
At some point bearing grudges or revenge cause more harm than good,why not see it as he is not destined to be with you,most times we don’t see the why of things but we focus on our needs and how we want things to be.
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