I’m in a dilemma 😫. I am in my middle 20s, a working class lady, ready to settle down. Now I have two men in my life who are ready to settle down. First is outside the country working on coming back soon, the other I got to know at my work place. This second guy has a kid although not married, he is well educated and loves me deeply. I feel so at peace when around him, he is very open with me about his life goals and all, he has being asking me out for months now. I don’t think my family would welcome him because he has a child already, but I feel, it’s better I get serious with him because we can grow together. I barely know the guy abroad, have never met him. I’m worried because we might not have enough time to know ourselves before getting married. Don’t know what else to do. Don’t want to hurt anyone in the end and I don’t want to make a mistake either.
Anonymous
Hello sometimes we can not be too careful also moving on,you must have to disappoint one of them.peace of mind and mutual growth is a great tool for any marriage