I met a guy online we chatted a lot that we developed feelings for each other. I asked him if he was single then he said he is single… in a playful way I said how can a cute guy like you be single… he told me that he was having a problem with his girlfriend that he can’t go back to that relationship is over. I tried to ask him what the problem was but he didn’t want to discuss about it. I asked him if he want a relationship or friendship with me… he said let’s start from friendship. I told him I wanted a relationship that I’m not getting younger. he told me that we need to see and discuss about it. he was very sweet with me then few weeks after he invited me to his place I went there. he was very happy to see me and he welcomed me and he said while we’ve been talking he wished he could bring me out from the phone that I’m such a sweet girl. he treated me nicely. Later he wanted sex and I told him that I can’t have sex with him unless I am his girlfriend he said that we are in love.
We had sex and few days later I went back home… He promised to visit me too.
later he called if I have gotten home and I said yes. He was very happy for safe trip. Few days later his attitude started changing… I complain that he was not like this before that I don’t know what the problem is and I apologized several times if I’ve done anything wrong. after some days he sent me a voice record telling me that his girlfriend came back crying that he don’t like someone crying so he forgave her and that they are back together…that his girlfriend said he should stop talking to me that she even blocked me, he’s the one that unblocked me… He said that he don’t know what to do. so I broke up with him. I told him that is fine I understand. He stopped messaging me unless I message him. I asked him that I thought he cared for me and he said he care.
I felt bad and terrible cos I still love him so dearly that I don’t see myself in any other man’s arm. I don’t know what to do 🥺
I wake up each day missing him.
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He took advantage of how you felt, he saw that you needed those words of affirmation for him to have sex with you. So, he said what you wanted to hear in other to have his way. He never loved for from the beginning.
Learn to move on, it will help you find real love.