Keep me anonymous pls
Am a single mother of a very beautiful daughter not the with the father this cos it was a one night thing but lied to my parents that I was raped cos that was the only way they could allow me to stay in the house with the baby . As for the father he denied the pregnancy at first and even moved away from where he stays. I was able to reach him on social media after 1yr and 11month the following month was my baby birthday he was happy abt the child and even promised to run a dna test which I accepted and told my parents about his decision . My parents said it okay.
He told me his married and would tell the woman about the child to me it fine cos we didn’t have any attachments than the child btw us.
He promised to visit last year before my baby birthday but didn’t only wish the baby happy birthday … I asked him about the dna and all he promised this year,First week in January but didn’t show up… He later told me I shouldn’t disturb him again that his a married man …so I blocked him and his mom from reaching me cos it was becoming much of a problem to me .
Truthshare
Hello.
Take care of your child as best as you can and let the man be for now. He will certainly come back in search of his daughter. Also, you may need to tell your parents the truth; maybe not now but soon because you wouldn’t want them to find out themselves.
Take care of yourself too, try not to worry too much about this. Talk to close family, friends or a counsellor if you need to.
Anonymous
And, try to get a job that will give you some savings and financial independence.
Also, keep an open mind about your baby’s father. He may never come back. You need to prepare yourself and baby girl, to be okay with that possibility.
Wishing you all the best.