I am a guy of 38 years. I was once married (though not legally) and the marriage lasted for just 2 years. I met another lady who I love sincerely and wholeheartedly four months ago but I didn’t tell her I was once married.
Few weeks ago, she discovered I was married, and I told her I was once married but not anymore. She ended the relationship because of that but I love her and don’t want to lose her.
What can I do to have her Heart back and make her change her mind to loving me back?
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It can be difficult to earn back someone’s trust and affection once they feel or know that you have betrayed their trust, but it is achievable through honesty, and sincere effort. Try to communicate with your partner, share your fears, insecurities, and why you didn’t think it was necessary to tell her about your previous marriage; sincerely apologize for your mistake and assure her you will honestly discuss important topics about your past going forward.
She may need space to think things through, so it is advisable you give her space and time to process her emotions. Be kind and understanding irrespective of how the situation turns out and respect her decision even if it is not what you may hope for; relationships don’t always work out, it’s important to learn from it and know when to move on.