I really don’t know what to do,I have been in a relationship for 5years now and I have had 6 abortion. He is quiet older than me and he wants us to settle down but he isn’t financially stable, he also has anger issues. There was a time he slapped me, several times he threatened to send me out of his house in the middle of the night. I’m a very calm person I know he cheats on me and when I confront him he starts fighting me for checking his phone(I’m not even bothered about him cheating). Then I don’t know what to do I can’t picture myself without him. I don’t know if I’m scared of being alone or I just love him too much. I am confused
Anonymous
Hi no one is perfect even you if you have stayed with him for years now and have knowed his good and bad then you can compare and contrast and note that other men out there you feel will get your time too have their good and bad.choose wisely while youbdobyour comparism between his good and bad.
Anonymous
Look look look
Don’t I repeat don’t stay
Leave his ass
And cryyyyyyyyytyyy our ass out it’s better
You’re keeping up with him because u are scared to be lonely that’s not right ur not being fair to ur self
He doesn’t respect u
He hits u that is bad and cheats and ur just there for cuddling and sexs
It shows u are in the relationship for quite the wrong resoans
Look am not judging people make mistake people love unconditionally
But this isn’t it
There is someone out there craving to love u cherish u care for u and make u his and you are in this messed up relationship
You are reducing ur worth
Your a babe sis own it
It not to late to set boundaries and standards
Don’t get pregnant don’t do no abortion last time I checked u are at the receiving end
And can end up dead or barren
We both know he is going to move to the next available chick out there and not droll over u
If he even cheats now knowing u know he dose and not care
When u can move on be happy alive beautiful and bold
Take some time off from relationship
Set ur standards right make sure u stick to them with the next person don’t evvvvvverrrr compromise at ur risk
Cryyyy if u have to but move on babe