Hi. I’m Sarai. I’ve been in a 9 month relationship with my ex. Everything was fine up until the pandemic and his depression kicked in and words were said on my end which were bad and we broke up in April. Those weeks I was working on myself, reading books about self care, better yourself in relationships etc. I started feeling good. Then mid May he reached out surprisingly after blocking my number. He said he hates how things ended and is sorry for everything. We continued to talk not daily but every now and then. He even reached out to my family and said he misses them. Last weekend he called me asking to hang out yesterday and I said maybe then we just talked and stuff and he asked how do I feel about us getting back together and I said I want things to be better and he said definitely. And today I met with him and he said he doesn’t want to rush into things, he wants to start over. And I felt confused.
Anonymous
After 9 months and now he wants to slow down? Strange! Well it’s a good thing he is even considering getting back. It’s possible he is also confused. You should talk to him, try to understand his concerns. I guess no one knows him better than you do, considering how long you guys have been together
Anonymous
Because we did sort of rush into things, getting pregnant fast and stuff.
Anonymous
you 2 might want different things and you might not be giving enough information here…pregnant?