Hi. I’m Jennifer
15 yrs old but about to turn 16 on the 14th. This has been a long journey for me. I don’t know where to start from and I also don’t know how to explain everything from the beginning so that y’all can get a better understanding but Last night he told me to leave him alone but I disagreed cuz I really wanted to talk to him. He’s my boyfriend… Soon to be 26 on the 14th as well. He has anger issues and I am too stubborn. He says that I act too smart. Said I deserve to be alone and he pities the man that would get married to me. He wanted to kill me last night. He held my neck and I fought back. I insulted him a lot too. I gave him every insult u can ever think of cuz I was hurting and I just wanted him to love me. He works for my dad so we live in the same house. My mom found out about us recently so I’ve been doing everything possible to make sure he doesn’t get chased out of the house given the fact that my mom also found out we’ve been having sex. I don’t know if all this is adding up cuz I’m really down. He’s been distant all throughout this and I’ve been telling him to act normal with me cuz I was facing a lot from my mom and I also didn’t want to deal with him. I’ve been fighting for him but now we’ve broken up cuz of my stubbornness. My parents and the other workers got involved. My mom told my dad everything that has been going on and he (my dad) almost beat me up Last night. He’s no longer talking to me. He doesn’t reply to my greetings. My mom is disappointed in me for giving my virginity to my dad’s worker. The other workers think I’m forcing myself on my ex and now my ex is no longer talking to me. I look like the bad one here. I’m so tired. I’m the only one getting affected. I’m just numb. I really don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m an idiot. I’m a bad person
Anonymous
Hello Jennifer I think your taking this too far and you should know now that love is not forced but love is found,at this age of yours the best thing to do is to face your study and life.
Anonymous
Hy jenifer.
Sending love and light to you❤️
I want you to know that although you may not understand this right now, you have been abused. There is no reason a 25 year old man should be in a relationship with a 15 year old. And a sexually active relationship at that. He has coerced you and lied to you and manipulated you into thinking that is okay, and it is not. I al sorry you are going through this. Your parents ought to see that you have been taken advantage of, you are really too young for this. He is violent, this is not a person you want in your life if you really want to go far, he doesnt love you, and i am sorry about this hard truth. Please take sometime
Anonymous
Hy jenifer.
Sending love and light to you❤️
I want you to know that although you may not understand this right now, you have been abused. There is no reason a 25 year old man should be in a relationship with a 15 year old. And a sexually active relationship at that. He has coerced you and lied to you and manipulated you into thinking that is okay, and it is not. I al sorry you are going through this. Your parents ought to see that you have been taken advantage of, you are really too young for this. He is violent, this is not a person you want in your life if you really want to go far, he doesnt love you, and i am sorry about this hard truth. Please take sometime off relationships, try to discover your self and your path. You have your life ahead of you, try to move past this mistake, and make the best of your life both spiritually and physically. Try to focus on school and hone your passion and creative side, find out what youre good at and use it possitively to improve yourself. Pray for forgiveness, and trust God im all your ways comit to him your plans, and it will be well with you❤️
Anonymous
To the previous writer, you have said well. Jenny pls you are a young string lady, smart and mature. You don’t need that guy, you are even mature than him despite his age. There is still time to pick you self, sharpen your self and be the best in your studies. I know you will be having mind sexual feeling bcus you disvirgin so early, and also the rate/speed at which you guys had sex will still be ringing in your head. You have to drop the shit. You gat to face life and reality and make your parents proud of you. You can still do it.
Anonymous
To the previous writer, you have said well. Jenny pls you are a young strong lady, smart and mature. You don’t need that guy, you are even more mature than him despite his age. There is still time to pick your self, sharpen your self and be the best in your studies. I know you will be having mind sexual feeling bcus you disvirgin so early, and also the rate/speed at which you guys had sex will still be ringing in your head. You have to drop that shit. You gat to face life and reality and make your parents proud of you. You can still do it.
Anonymous
Hello jennifer,u still small for all this ok.face ur future,plan for ur life and achieve ur aim
Anonymous
So sorry dear
Deborah
Pls jenny focus on ur studies, u are too small for that. He’s not the perfect suitor for u wait till the time to reach. Well, i don’t have much to say after u have loose ur virginity. Am dissappointed in u for doing that. Am a girl also am also 16, pls hold on to urself. Thanks.