Early thus year after a bad breakup which took me 6months to heal, I met someone, I felt happy again, I continuously thanked him for bringing back happiness and true love into my life, I bought him gifts to reciprocate that love but seven months down, sth didn’t feel right anymore, we had no argument or fight, he just decided to ghost me and told me he needed to rediscover himself and fix himself, his attitude made me dig deeper and I found out Fashola Oluwaseun Akinwale was actually a married man pretending to be a single father, he told me his baby mama was engaged and currently living with her fiancée, I checked everywhere even his SM handle on twitter @anthonio fashola, nth suspicious it was as clean as could be just pictures of his child, he planned the whole thing out just to hurt me for no reason, he came back pleading for forgiveness with an underlined pride and more cooked up lies in disguise of wanting to help me heal but I could see the lies from a mile away, I am shattered, depressed, not bcos we broke up but bcos I would never involve myself with a married man, its against everything I stand for as a woman and as a person, fashola oluwaseun shattered my self respect without remorse, why do married men do this? What can be done to end this? Everything was just perfectly planned out, well scripted, I am depressed bcos there will b more victims and it will be good if one married stray dog be used as a scape goat, they hurt women without remorse, and d woman is asked to move on and forget about it, I want justice for what he’s done to me, its hard to get it out of my head and pretend like it never happened, I’m sad, shattered and drained, it’s a big scar.
Angel Uzonwune
It’s okay. I totally understand how you feel. It wasn’t your fault that this happened because you had no idea that he was married. It’s okay to feel bitter and angry like you want to retaliate but the best option is to let things lie and move one. Forgive him but do not let him back into your life no matter how hard he begs because getting involved with a married man is too low and you’re better than that. Move one with your life, get busy with work or school or whatever activity that makes you feel satisfied and happy. Pretty soon, someone who truly loves you and is single and meant for you would come along.
I’m sorry that you have to go through all this plenty heartbreaks but your happiness is close, very close.
With time, it’ll feel better, I promise.🖤
Take care and remain strong.
Gloria Ayibakuro Jephthah
Also talk to counselor and create a good hobby for yourself that will distract from him. Every thing is going to be ok soon