My fiancee travelled to UAE for find greener pasture and before she left i cloned her WhatsApp without her knowing, whatever she does in her WhatsApp i get to see it all including her chat. She couldn’t get a job in UAE after 2months and she had just 3months visa. Now what happened is that I saw her chat with an Arab man that wants to give a job offer but asked her to sleep with him and she agreed, she slept with him. I saw there chat of where the man is asking her if she enjoyed the sex and was asking if they will spend night together the next. I am confused right now, I am finding it really hard to deal with, please i need as much advice i can get on how to handle this please. Even till now she still doesn’t know i am aware she slept with a man
Anonymous
Hi friend if you really want to have peace of mind you should stop the cloning and learn how to trust your girl friend not because you want to trust her but because you need peace in your mind please this is the first step in solving your problems
Anonymous
Thank you a lot for respo ding. That i have learnt is a big mistake on my own part of which i have worked on and still working on, I have deleted the cloned WhatsApp.
But please what should i do after discovering this, should i just be quiet like i dont know nothing, should i tell her, should I just leave? Leaving is hard for me because i love her so much and myself i have hurt her with some other lady long ago but retraced back my step and it never did happen. So should i just let it slide because i am no saint either. Please what should i do?
Anonymous
Hey friend you just said it all you are no saint and you love her.let love rule.
Remember something’s are better left unsaid.
Anonymous
Thank you so much…. Really hard though… But i will do as you have advised.
I just hope she does not continue sleeping with him, because if he wanted sex with her before he gives her a job, he may still want same sex to keep her on the job as the manager of the organization.
I know she did it to secure the job but that does not justify her act completely , this is not really her if not for that the situation.
Thanks once again.
Anonymous
Did she know about your history with the other lady?