I have an on going relationship of 3yrs, I am presently 10 weeks pregnant. Before this relationship I had a relationship with a guy abroad which is still on, we always had a good communication before he got a job and rented an apartment, he promised coming home to make things right if he had the aforementioned but when he got it, he said he needs a life contract before coming home which will now b next year August and that if I have anyone good coming for me I shouldn’t hesitate, that he will not stop good thing from happening to me, he is not a womaniser but likes beers, his words saddens my heart because I needed him to jt b committed and tell me to wait, I love him although he claim to love me too but the circumstances are the barriers and all these made me to give myself to the one am pregnant for, who loves me but I don’t love much, he is a business man, doing well but not that financially buoyant but averagely okay.
Recently I was surprised when the one abroad suddenly called that he wants to make enquiries to see how he can bring me overseas because I have tried my best going before.
Am so confused as to what to do because am pregnant at the moment and a similar thing like this had happened to me before where I had to remove the pregnancy and the second
disappointed me although not abroad base I lost both relationships and they are happily married with kids.
Pls help me.
Anonymous
Hi.at this point in time you have made a decision bases on the comment from the first guy and taking pregnancy out is not a good option.
For me its better to let the former know the real state of things and let the worse happen.