Hi, my first boyfriend practically ruined me, he got in another relationship when we became a year, i found out after our 3 years anniversary. I ended it and ever since, i couldn’t bring myself to trust anyone. I just can’t. I couldnt be with just one man, I’ve been cheating. Going in and out of several relationships. It’s crazy. Just a year ago I met a guy and I fell in love with him, i loved him with my all and he reciprocated but my insecurities just keeps kicking in and every now and then I cheat. He found out the first time, i apologized and he forgave me, but now he found out I had sex with another guy. He’s very upset, broken and sad but then he only shows that to me. Everyone else thinks he’s just fine but he’s not. I want to stop cheating, i want him to forgive me, i want him to believe that I love because I really do. He hates me. He doesn’t even want to see me. I don’t have a reason for cheating. Am really sorry and I want to be a better person. I really hope he’ll forgive me. I’ll stick with him alone. But I don’t see that happening
I don’t know if you can help because am having a lot of crazy thoughts, i even feel like injuring or even killing myself. I can bear to be apart from him. I really love him
Funny thing is if I still see my ex with someone else I get really, really angry.
I don’t know what to do
Help
Anonymous
Reach out https://counselling.truthshare.com.ng/counsellors/Abdussalam-Abdulfatai-100
Anonymous
Hello.i think the first stage to healing is to forgive your ex and move on.putting blame on what has happened in the past might just be the reason why your still cheating.
So imagine if your resent boyfriend makes the same excuse and start cheating with other girls,then there will be a real problem
Anonymous
i thinku should move on start a life self care is good
Anonymous
Healing should start with yourself first, then forgive you boyfriend. Your ex cheated on you, right? You become a cheater and don’t trust guys no one is blaming you but the innocent guy having to bear your ‘wickedness’ on him after you had to apologize the first and second time, what would take you to stay faithful and give your best to your current lover? Cheating ain’t a mistake, it’s what you have in mind to do. The same way you are swift to cheat same way you’ll overcome it. Regards